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My ex and I have been dating again for the last 1.5 months. Unlike our short term 3 month relationship earlier this year we have been spending a lot of time together which according to her was the initial problem. I’m a working professional she is still in school but work 2 jobs and as of late she has been coming over to my house everyday when she gets off work @ 9pm. I’ve spent a lot of money on her with dinner, cooking her dinner and even bringing her gifts from my business trip in LA. Last night she didn’t spend the night and left around 12pm and I did something I feel sort of bad about. She used my laptop to check her MySpace page and when she left I noticed she was still logged on. Turns out when we broke up back in March she had some really bad things to say about me. To think that she advertised it to all of her friends. I don’t use MySpace but reading her blogs I gathered that she was dating 2 other guys before giving me another shot, in which with one guy went into some mild sexual detail which was disturbing. She had this one blog were she listed all three of our names and bashed all of us. However, mine appeared to be the worse “stating I am the bi*** in the relationship” and “that I’m a sell out being a black man and trying to act white”. We have been doing a lot of kissing talking on the phone and hanging out almost everyday and my friends thinks she is using me, but to think that I spent money on this girl when I wasn’t working earlier this year making a lot of sacrifices to be called the bit** in the relationship angers me. I know I’m guilty but I’m still getting mixed feelings about this girl. I’m 26 she is 22. What should I do ?

By: Nik

I’ve known my boyfriend for a year and a half, but we just became official two weeks ago. So, i was over at his place and his friends came over. I took a couple of tequila shots with his friend and his friend gave me a couple of hugs randomly. So, his friend left his other friend’s phone outside and went to go get it. I was dying to get out, so i went with him. we got the phone, and he reached out his hand to help me down from the step. i took his hand but he ended up picking me up. we realized got locked out of the apartment building and couldn’t get back in. so we decided to get a bite to eat and he said he’d buy me something, if i gave him a smile. as we were walking he asked me how my boyfriend found me. i was like, “what do you mean ‘find’ me?” he replied “i mean, he’s a cool guy and all, but you’re an AMAZING girl.” i remained silent. so we lit up cigarettes when we got to the store and he decided he didn’t wanna go in. we turned back and we passed an alley and decided to sit down. he sat down in the chair, and i sat on the bench next to it. he asked why i was sitting so far away. he told me to come closer. i got up and stood by him. he pulled me onto his lap. i got up and sat back down on the bench. he said “you were just sitting on my lap… why’d u get up? why won’t you sit on my lap?” i replied “i don’t think i need to answer that.” he was like “what?” and i repeated myself. so he got up and sat next to me on the bench. i told him to gimme another cig and he asked if he got a kiss. i told him no. he pointed to his cheek and said “right here, a friendly kiss.” again i said “no”. he then said “do i at least get a hug?” i said maybe. so we went back to my boyfriend’s place and waited for someone to go into the building so we could get in too. we got back to his place and my boyfriend was like “where were you guys?” i realized my boyfriend had called me, but i had left my phone in his room. about 5 minutes after i got back, i started crying. my boyfriend kept asking what was wrong and i didn’t know what to say… his friends were still there and i didn’t want him fighting. he was like “my girlfriend leaves and comes back crying, what am i supposed to think?” i didn’t tell him, and i told him he could take his friends wherever the needed to go since they needed a ride and i’d wait. i waited at his place but sobered up by the time he got back, so decided not to tell him, i didn’t want him fighting. i wrote a blog mentioning some things and i indirectly mentioned what happened, so he’s been asking me for his friend’s name unless i cared about their “well-being”. i don’t want him to hurt the guy, but i know he knows i didn’t do anything (i made it clear in the blog). what do you think? any advice? thoughts?

By: Julianne S

When friends visit my blog all they see are the pictures and what I wrote. There are no buttons on other ways to leave a comment. I can set everything to Public. How can I fix it so that visitors can see how to leave comments? Do they have to be yahoo members? Thanks, Randy

By: momokomiller

Facebook and Friendster are extermely popular but I found them to be complicated for a computer newbie like, yet so many people and friends alike use them instead of lowly known but simple and easy to use and navigate website with the same features and functionality like http://www.AseanFace.com. If you try and use aseanface.com, you will definetely see what I’m talking about. You can chat online, connects to people around you and friends, coworkers and schoolmates and classmates the same way as facebook does. make your own blogs, upload pics and videos, submit your articles, announce events to your groups and communities and much more……
Since I am not teh advance type guy as some younger people, I would rather use AseanFace.com to connect with friends and people I meet. anyways just my opinion.

Thanks,

By: Shellaine E

i really need help. all my friends take my top friends too seriously and so i need a GOOD code to hide them from my friends.
and the blog is bothering me up there. lol please a code to hide it as well if you know one?
also, the biggest problem im having is seeing my project playlist on my profile.
i realllly want to hide it.
someone please help me!
thankyou.
:]

By: californiagirl2050@sbcglobal.net

Why would a guy friend-who’s like a brother to you-have a problem with you dating one of his friends and having a full on relationship with him?

He wouldn’t have a problem if he’s not interested in you right?

By: Barla Q

Miss Cherry welcomes friends with open arms but some people are not to friendly some are very childes to all my friends thank you for your responses and those of you who are future friends my life is a open book and feel free to view my blog and profile and email me if you will i am not going to say this person name because they been on answers a very long time but he is very virble abusive and it is not cool I have try to be nice and handle it in a mature way now my profile or blog never said anything about oral things and what not and I don’t mind small talk but this person took it to another level I am so tempted to put this person email and pictures they are sending me for you guys to veiw but two wrongs don’t make it right please what is the best way to handle this situation!!

By: Miss Cherry 26

Last night my friends and i hookah-ed but we ran out of the coals that were purchased at a tobacco shop made for hookahs. So i shoveled out a red hot coal from the fireplace and put it on topof the hookah. It worked just great, but I have heard that for whatever reason you’re not supposed to do this. Let me know what you know!

By: armanisk8r

Some of my frineds are leaving comments on my blog and as soon as they put them up they disappear…Please help. It is upsetting when you work so hard on a blog and you can’t enjoy what your friends said about the blog you just put up!!

How do contact Yahoo about this?? Can find any place to email them about this problem!!

By: á?¦.Ö¼â?¢â?¥Â¨*Õ?δï»?*¨â?¥â?¢Ö¼.á?

Is that weird? I have one on blogspot.com that I just started. I love writing on it and making the layout look cool. 2 of my friends know I have it but I don’t write it for them and I doubt they read it anyway. I just write it for myself. I guess (like most bloggers) I have a secret desire for random strangers to find my site and read it regularly. But I just write about my own thoughts/life/opinions/random stuff, so I doubt that would happen.

So are there bloggers who just write for themselves, or is that weird?

By: confuzedmee